How to Choose Your Wedding Priorities

Planning a wedding is an exciting journey filled with countless decisions to make, from the venue to the menu and everything else that goes in-between, before and after.

A crucial first step of wedding planning, and one that is often overlooked, is determining your wedding day priorities as a couple. Establishing your priorities from the beginning will act as a guiding light as you detail your budget, build your guest list and create a wedding day that reflects you both, leaving you and your guests with an unforgettable experience.

Here are FIVE ways to help determine your wedding priorities so you can begin your planning journey with confidence!

1. Reflect on your values and vision:

Take some time as a couple to reflect on what matters most to you. Discuss your shared values, dreams, and the overall vision you have for your wedding day. Consider what elements are essential to you both, whether it’s having an intimate ceremony with close family and friends, incorporating cultural traditions, or focusing on sustainability. Understanding your priorities will help guide you in making decisions that align with your vision for your special day.

2. Create a budget:

Establishing a budget is essential for prioritising your wedding spend. Sit down together and determine how much you’re willing to spend overall and allocate portions to different aspects such as venue, catering, attire, entertainment, and decor. Knowing your financial boundaries will help you decide where to allocate your resources most effectively.

3. Communicate with each other:

Open communication is key when it comes to setting your wedding priorities. Share your thoughts, preferences, and non-negotiables with your partner and be willing to compromise and find common ground on those difficult decisions. By understanding each other’s preferences and concerns, you can prioritise elements that hold significance to both of you.

4. Consider the guest experience:

While it’s important to focus on what matters most to you as a couple, also consider the experience you want to create for your guests. Whether it’s delicious food, great music, or thoughtful personal touches, prioritising guest experience can help ensure that everyone has a memorable time celebrating with you.

5. Stay flexible and adapt:

Wedding planning often involves unexpected challenges and changes. With that in mind, stay flexible and be prepared to adapt your priorities as needed throughout the planning process. Remain focused on what truly matters to you as a couple and be willing to let go of less essential details to ensure a stress-free journey and happy memories as you embark on your marriage.

 

Download Our Wedding Priorities Questionnaire!

To assist you in your wedding planning journey, we’ve created a Wedding Priorities Questionnaire that is tailored specifically to help you as a couple to determine which elements have importance to you both. This tool is designed for you to explore each question either together or separately, creating meaningful conversations and will provide certainty that each of your values and visions are represented on your wedding day.

DOWNLOAD | Collective Concepts Wedding Priorities Questionnaire

Happy Planning!